It’s been a while since I just wrote with no specific subject in mind. Just letting the words come – allowing – whatever wants to come, come. It’s a process of trust. Trust that words WILL come. Trust that they will make sense. Trust that it will be meaningful. Trust that I’ll be a worthy [...] Read more »
12 Top Tips to Raise your Partner’s Hackles
WARNING: These tips work. They have been tried and tested by me personally on my ex-husband, my children and at times, friends and colleagues. The degree of fallout can vary. Sometimes it’s so subtle, you don’t even connect your smart move with the end result, which, by the way, may be months or years down [...] Read more »
Trust The Process
Sometimes we get into a situation where we just don’t know which way to go. We don’t trust anyone’s advice, least of all our own instincts. So today I want to write about Trusting the Process and what to do when we get that feeling of being stuck. When you think to yourself ‘What [...] Read more »
Who Me? Ten Reasons?
I heard a great tip this weekend to take the heat out of an escalating argument. It ties in beautifully with the work I do, so I have a special appreciation for just how powerful it is. Here goes… When you and your partner find yourselves in a position where the discussion is getting heated [...] Read more »

