Light from Many Lamps

  Actually, Light from Many Lamps is the title of one of my most prized books. I was presented with this book as a reward for hard work at the end of my final school year. It is, as it says on the cover, ‘a treasury of inspiration selected from the wisdom of the ages’, [...] Read more »

12 Top Tips to Raise your Partner’s Hackles

WARNING: These tips work. They have been tried and tested by me personally on my ex-husband, my children and at times, friends and colleagues. The degree of fallout can vary. Sometimes it’s so subtle, you don’t even connect your smart move with the end result, which, by the way, may be months or years down [...] Read more »

Who Me? Ten Reasons?

  I heard a great tip this weekend to take the heat out of an escalating argument.  It ties in beautifully with the work I do, so I have a special appreciation for just how powerful it is. Here goes… When you and your partner find yourselves in a position where the discussion is getting heated [...] Read more »

Fatal Attribution Error

Fatal Attribution Error. Well, that is what my mind comes up with whenever I think of the Fundamental Attribution Error.  I can make a few attributions as to why the biased to ‘fatal’ instead of ‘fundamental’ – we’ll come to that. For now,  let’s just look at what it is, this Fundamental Attribution Error. It’s [...] Read more »